Definitions:
Traumatic Bonding~ the well being of a child, a hostage or a battered woman depends upon the hostage taker or the batterer.
Masochistic~pleasure in being abused or dominated: a taste for suffering.
Victim~One who is harmed by or made to suffer from an act, circumstance, agency, or condition.
Abuser~To use wrongly or improperly; misuse.
Stockholm Syndrome~ the psychological tendency of a hostage to bond with, identify with, or sympathize with his or her captor.
Mistreatment~to treat badly.
Spheres of Control~ instrument developed to differentiate the original locus of control scale into three major spheres of life.
Deference~ submission to or compliance with the will, wishes, etc., of another.
Entitlement~ belief that one is deserving of certain privileges.
Self-defence~ the act of defending oneself, one's property, or a close relative